Whether it's too early in the relationship or as Susan Trombetti explains, "you feel in your gut that they aren't as emotionally available as you," rushing an "I love you" could actually hurt a budding romance.
In advising the world's rich and famous on the matters of love, Trombetti urges clients and friends alike to listen to their instincts first and foremost. She explains, If you're having doubts about expressing your love, "You pretty much already know in your heart, and that's a red flag you shouldn't say it."
That doesn't necessarily mean that love won't develop as you spend more time together, however. As with any relationship and finding your happily ever after, she stresses, "Maybe it could get there, and maybe it's never going to get there," but if you truly feel like you are a good match, but still have doubts about saying the words, her advice is to wait. She adds, "If you think they could get there, that's yet another reason not to because you don't want to scare them off." Besides, falling in love is fun! Enjoy every minute of it instead of rushing it.
