Puppy blues can push you into some tough feelings, especially if you're not used to caring for a being as helpless as a dog. Particularly for pups that are scared or unsure after their adoption, they may be difficult to work with, showing signs of separation anxiety, nervousness, and even aggression. And if you're working tirelessly to bond with and train your new dog, you may begin to wonder when to throw in the towel.
Before you return Fido to the shelter or pet store, it's best to wait until the puppy blues have subsided to decide if you two are really a bad fit after all. Choosing Therapy notes that the puppy blues doesn't last forever, and many of the initial shocks of owning your dog will go away after a few months. If you're in severe emotional distress, unable to function, or feeling anxious about problems unrelated to your pooch, talk to a therapist or mental health professional.
In most cases, there's no need to regret your decision to get a dog if it doesn't immediately go well. Give it time, continue getting to know your furry friend, and ask for a helping hand when things feel out of control.
